It’s All About Beliefs
Changing your mindset can have a significant impact on achieving
your goals.
We’ve all heard about the power of positive thinking but does it
work? How does your thinking influence your actions and get you
the results you want?
Understanding Your Mindset
The Wall Street Journal recently published an article about the
significance of our beliefs and the mental models, or mindsets
that shape our behavior. According to the psychologists
interviewed for the piece, we act and perform in accordance with
the beliefs these models tell us is true.
Yet most of us have some flawed or erroneous beliefs, which in
turn misguide our interpretation of our world. As a result, we
see the world not as it is, but as we are – and it’s this flawed
interpretation that drives our attitude and behavior.
For example, if you think something is not possible or out of
your reach, you’re probably not going to commit much energy and
resources to accomplishing that goal. Whether it’s gathering new
assets, landing a big client, or simply getting out of the
office at five o’clock, your thoughts influence your actions.
The bottom line is that our beliefs become our truths and
reality. Henry Ford explained it best when he said, “Whether you
think you can or can’t, you’re right.”
What This Means to You
The professionals I work with are highly skilled and
well-educated individuals with rewarding compensation plans.
They also have mindsets that support or inhibit their ability to
optimize their performance and results. Over the course of my
career I’ve witnessed just how significantly these mindsets
influence success.
As changes in the industry and your market occur, so do the
demands on you and your business. No longer is skills training
sufficient enough to ensure that you will accomplish your goals.
Old habits die slowly because they are driven by an outdated
mindset. And despite the efforts of many corporations and
businesses, behavior-based training and monetary incentives
don’t have a lasting effect on performance. It’s your mindset
that needs changing and then lasting behavior change will follow.
Insanity is often defined as doing the same things over and over
again, while expecting different results. If this rings a bell,
it may be time to change your mindset so you can get different
results.
Changing Your Mindset
In order to replace old habits though a change in your mindset,
there are three steps you should follow:
1.First, begin by specifically identifying the results you want.
2.Then create and develop actions that will accomplish those
results. 3.Lastly, examine your beliefs about those actions to
determine if they are holding you back.
For example, a common goal among speakers is to be listed with
several speaker bureaus. Many speakers have the credentials and
experience to be on a list but don’t take the steps necessary to
make it happen.
Why is this right? They know the bureaus requirements so why
don’t they just get on with it? Do they believe they will be
accepted for listing?
Beliefs that put a damper on expectations and behavior are like
mushrooms - they thrive in darkness. Yet if you shine a little
light on those beliefs, you’ll develop a different mindset about
the affluent market.
These questions are the light that can change your mindset:
1.What does my research say about the market for my speaking
topics? 2.Do I know other speakers like me that are listed with
several bureaus? 3.Exactly what are my obstacles to getting
their attention? Can they be overcome?
No matter what your goal, saying you haven’t done something
before is not justification for not being able to do it now.
Everyone has overcome adversity and accomplished things they
never thought they’d do. Whether it’s learning to drive a car,
graduating college, or reaching an income goal, we all have our
accomplishments. This is no different, and by questioning your
beliefs, you’ll find evidence that supports new beliefs about
what you can accomplish. “Seeing” truly is believing, and once
you see that old habits and assumptions are holding you back
from finding and working with several bureaus, you’ll begin to
use your talent and skills to make it become your reality.
Most dictionaries define a belief as a conviction that certain
things are true, so if you want to achieve your goals, create a
mindset made of beliefs that support the truth you want in your
future.
About Author :
Bob Lodie is a speaker, business strategy coach and consultant
to financial advisors. He is author of Three Steps to Million
Dollar Production and Personal Success from the Inside Out. He
can be reached bob@boblodie.com or direct at 310-552-6064